It's true that humans need Godly discernment in life to get through our daily lives. However, in Jim Carrey's
latest comedy, saying "yes" to anything and everything proves to be an overall positive experience despite some rather
serious consequences at times. Yes Man is inspired by the true story of Danny Wallace, a man who decided at one
point in his life to say "yes" to absolutely everything. In the film, Carrey plays Carl Allen, a depressed divorced bank
loan officer who has pretty much given up on even trying in life. Completely unmotivated, it isn't until a friend
who has experienced the 'saying yes to everything' concept that he begins to really live again.
While the idea is absurd, the realization that someone - like Wallace - has actually tried this before makes the plot
for Yes Man more tangible. However, director Peyton Reed packages it in a primarily comedic dressing with
most of it being exaggerated or over-the-top instead of realistic. This works for it being a comedy, but Reed and Carrey
still take it a bit further to inject some heart and seriousness into the story. Carrey plays it more like he did in
Bruce Almighty as sort of a mix between silly and serious than in Liar Liar where he was considerably more
devoted to the silly side of comedy. Conceptually, I can see why a lot of people feel Yes Man is just like Liar Liar,
but it's really hardly similar at all. As someone who liked the 1997 comedy (it is too crude but does offer a redeemable
theme by its end), I really don't see many similarities at all in Yes Man to Liar Liar. Carl Allen is
a significantly different character from Fletcher Reede, and Carrey fleshes him out as much more of a regular guy than
Reede's cartoony antics.
Sadly, Yes Man isn't any cleaner content-wise than either aforementioned comedies. There's an icky oral sex
gag where he feels he has no choice but to agree to the service of an elderly woman who really wants to do it. In addition
to that, we briefly see Carrey's butt crack as he's riding a motorcycle in a hospital gown, and we later see a full auditorium
of naked people who are covering their privates (I won't ruin why they're naked, but it's one of the last scenes). In addition,
a few comments are inappropriate, but the sexual content isn't nearly as frequent as in Liar Liar, or any number of
current PG-13 comedies (including the recent Four Christmases). Language is on the heavy side, but thanfully not frequent.
Carl utters an "f" word to himself while frustrated about running out of gas, and there are a series of "s" words and, more importantly, blasphemy scattered about (a couple
"g*dd*mn's" and a handful of "Oh G-d" and "Oh my G-d," as well as about 3 uses of "J-sus"). It's unfortunate because the majority
of gags aren't vulgar and the story doesn't need this kind of content. It's the kind of film that, if edited right, could have
been made decades ago as a family film. But the filmmakers include enough profane and crude content here to nearly completely ruin it.
Carrey turns in a fine performance in Yes Man, and the young talent of Zooey Deschanel is a nice compliment. She
plays things pretty straight as Allison to Carrey's Carl, but makes a good match for the new "Yes man" version of Carl.
Not all the best laughs were spoiled in the trailers, but there certainly aren't a whole lot of gut-busting moments in
Yes Man. Compared to Bruce and Liar, this one stays pretty light on the comedy, but still finds
time for heart when necessary -- even if the pay off morally isn't as impacting as either of those films. Saying "yes" to every
opportunity that comes your way is really a stupid and thoughtless way to live your life, and the film does prove this to be
relatively true. It makes it clear that discernment is crucial when deciding on important life decisions, but saying no to
everything isn't really living either. Of course, when it comes to the Christian walk, striving
for holiness is crucial in our decision-making process, so making the right choices is very important.
Well, I'm not going to lie. I enjoy watching Jim Carrey in action and it was great to see him return to comedy for the first
time in about three years. It's just unfortunate that the humor gets as crude as it does. So, because of its content, I can't
recommend Yes Man. Please keep the film's content in mind when you are deciding whether or not to see this one
for yourself or others. Unfortunately, we probably won't have a family-friendly effort from Carrey until next year's A Christmas Carol
from Robery Zemeckis, so in the meantime, you might just want to say "No" to Yes Man.
- John DiBiase
Parental Guide: Brief Summary of Content
Carl sees his ex-wife at a bar getting frisky with a guy and he comments that they're "touching each other's genitals."
When awkwardly confronted, he remarks he's "gonorrhea" instead of "gone" (as in leaving), but realized he didn't mean to say
that; At the yes convention, Terrence describes Carl to himself, saying he's so unmotivated he can't even "summon the enthusiasm
to masturbate;" While having to say yes to everything, Carl reads aloud an ad for enlarging the size of his penis and he clicks "yes" (but
we hear nothing else about that); Carl's elderly neighbor Tillie asks for his help to put up shelves and he says yes.
She can't repay him financially so she offers to give him a "release" and adds "a sexual release." He's opposed to it and says no,
but a series of bad things immediately follow, so he decides to go back and accept her offer. We then see her throw him
on a bed and go out of view of the camera (and then reach back into view and put her dentures in a glass next to the bed) for
her to perform oral sex on him. We then see his face and reactions -- first horror and then sort of a disgusted pleasure before the scene
ends (all played for laughs); While drunk at a bar, a girl taps Carl on the shoulder and he turns and passionately kisses her (but that's
not what she was going to ask him for). He spits out gum that was apparently hers; Allison and Carl kiss passionately outside
on an amphitheater stage and then move out of the camera's view (which kind of implies more, but then we see them fully clothed
again while sitting in the stands of the empty theater); Rooney sees Tillie at a party and knowing what she did to Carl seems interested in her.
She asks him for help with something and he gladly finishes his drink and walks off with her; Carl's exwife asks him to
come over and she vents to him before kissing him and asking him to stay the night. He declines and leaves;
We see Carl's bare butt in a hospital gown while riding a motorcycle; We see a convention full of completely naked people,
but they're covering up any bare chests or genitals. We do see partial views of their bare butts very briefly, however.
1 "f" word (+ 1 written in a song title in the credits), about 8 "s" words (+ 2 during a closing credits song and 1 in a song
title in the credits), 3 "g*dd*mn," 3 "J*sus," 2 "a-hole," 2 "a" words, 2 "d*ck," 2 "s*cks," about 11 derivatives of "G-d," 3 "h*ll,"
There's drinking in several scenes, including a scene where Carl buys his friends a bunch of drinks at a bar and he himself
gets plastered (and we see him very drunk during a fight outside the bar); Carl puts what looks like hot sauce on his
hand and snorts it while drunk at a bar
We see a brief clip from the movie Saw on Carl's TV where a character is about to cut his foot off (and then we
see the guy's face and hear him screaming, with Carl yelling at the TV for him to break it off already). We don't actually
see any blood or gore; We see some scrapes
on two people's faces after a car accident; In a nightmare, Carl's friends find him lying
dead on his couch frozen with a contorted face. A fly lands on his eyeball and then flies into his mouth; While at a chicken
butcher, we see some blood on the walls and hear about how they kill the chickens, which causes Carl to pass out
Nick throws a rock through a window and is tackled by security; A man wants to fight Carl at a bar and punches him a couple of times. Carl tries to hit him but is too drunk and punches
a different person by accident; Carl accidentally falls backwards down some stairs and then has a dog barking viciously
in his face; Carl is startled by a black cat and jumps into and over a parked car; A car is hit by an oncoming truck
(landing the two people in the hospital with minor injuries)
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